Let’s admit that true love is hard to come by these days. So when you do find it, will you hesitate or answer?
The dating scene today is very different from when our parents and grandparents came up. As an 80s baby, I can say I have watched the times when men and women were truly expressing their love to one another by writing letters and singing in the rain.
I remember writing 4-page letters and then spraying them with my favorite Victoria’s Secret body spray and then sealing them with a shiny lip gloss kiss near my signature. Those were the good days of transparency with our feelings. We were not ashamed to show how we felt.
To be honest I think that is something needed again today. The feeling of honestly not caring what anyone thought when it came to being in love. Doesn’t matter if you were sharing a sandwich on a walk in the park or enjoying a single rose that he picked up out of somebody’s yard lol. It was the thought that counted and the effort to show you how they felt for you.
Today it seems to be that the display of love and affection has slipped through the cracks of society’s list of what is acceptable and what is not. I mean people are out here wanting to give a 50/50 kind of love and refusing to eat amazing food at what I would say are some amazing restaurants.
Some have become so caught up in these lists they have created for themselves, that they are missing out on some amazing people. The very person you are rejecting and refusing to make things work with could very well be the best love experience you ever had.
Why risk losing and wasting years of our lives searching for something that may only come around once in this lifetime?
I mean sure the sea is full of fish but it’s also full of contamination and whale sperm!
Take what you need from that.
So when love comes calling and knocking on your door or through a text message, I think it’s best to see where it goes. I mean God has this beautiful way of bringing us exactly what we need when we least expect it or even when we don’t think we want it.
Let’s add that it may come through the very person you don’t think it will work out with.
