So let’s agree that not only the men are out here playing games but so are the women. Today let’s talk about the women who are intentionally setting themselves up to be hurt time and time again. That my dear is a mental game that some of you play with yourself all year long. She is the one chasing after the guy who just gives her hope and no guaranteed commitment. She is the one despite dreaming of a relationship or marriage, is telling herself that all is good with the brother who tells her that he just wants to take things slow and see where it goes, or let’s just chill with no strings attached right now.
It’s time women stop falling for the men who have no mutual intentions with you. I mean he knew he had plans to waste your time the minute he said hello to you. He knew that he was going to treat you like a fast food drive thru.
Yes he told you right from the start what he was looking for but as usual women never listen to what the man is saying. They only hear how they just might be able to persuade him to choose them with what Stevie Harvey said was a sitting goldmine, between their thighs.
Yes she feels that once she puts those repetitive sex moves on him that never saved the last few relationships, he is destined to be hooked like a fish. In her mind, she sees the potential of the man he can become regardless of what her eyes are showing her in real time.
It’s clearly something about the excitement for some women to want to play build a bear, except this is not just some stuff toy you can fill up with what you think needs to be there. A man has to want to settle down, and he must definitely want you enough to change.
Let’s admit that some men are just not ready to change and no matter how amazing of a woman you are, and how well you think your sex game is, the brother is going to have fun with you and keep having fun until he meets that woman who makes him see a reason to change.
So why continue the chase and then when your heart is broken, you declare that all men are dogs?! No only the ones you keep choosing. You like to fix things, so you keep finding yourself attracted to the man that is broken and clearly appears to need some help when in honesty he is happy just the way he is. He has made a very sound decision that this is the life he wants to have at the moment until he is ready for a serious commitment. Don’t play Dr. Phil to him, assuming he just is not truly in touch with his true feelings, and needs you to come play Captain Save A…well you get the point!
It’s 2021, women don’t make this year another insane one for you on the dating scene. Real love is out there and it exists with the man who is ready to have that experience with you straight from the jump! If you keep treating yourself like leftovers, that is just what you will be, left over on the sidewalk when he walks off to settle down with someone else because he was ready and done with the games.
Photo by Samad Ismayilov
Follow Us On Social Media!
